06 January 2009


Strap-on sex feels like *sex* to me. Not like sexPLAY, but like *sex*. Intimate and scary and vulnerable and beautiful.

Just had a long discussion with Jack about where that means it falls in our definition of poly.

As a general rule, things that feel like sex to him are out: oral/anal/vaginal/shared masturbation.
Strap-on sex doesn't feel like sex to him, but it does to me. Where does that leave us?

Gist: It's still okay. As long as it doesn't damage the intimacy between us, which it doesn't for either of us.

What all this translates to? Say hello to my next toy:

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