tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2319220787283703563.post5476422239148394208..comments2023-05-02T06:13:44.521-04:00Comments on Ruby Incarnidine: RealizationsNoelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18417703892090252066noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2319220787283703563.post-6688298587055721532008-11-12T11:21:00.000-05:002008-11-12T11:21:00.000-05:00"I'm much more likely to end up with a small harem..."I'm much more likely to end up with a small harem of subs and a a top I occasionally play with in one big house :)"<BR/><BR/>Now THAT sounds like happiness. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2319220787283703563.post-37276984870369701022008-11-12T08:50:00.000-05:002008-11-12T08:50:00.000-05:00@Speaker: I can understand that. I think we're all...@Speaker: I can understand that. I think we're all taught that we're supposed to be either the Princess or Prince Charming, but it's not something that can work for most people. The image of it is so one-dimensional that real humans can't live it. <BR/>I've mostly redefined my idea of happiness, which is why realizing that some part of me still believed in and wanted that was startling. <BR/>I mean, I'm a bi, poly switch... somehow I don't think the 'traditional' ideal of domestic bliss is in the cards for me. I'm much more likely to end up with a small harem of subs and a a top I occasionally play with in one big house :)Noelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18417703892090252066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2319220787283703563.post-45630739142378660072008-11-11T21:32:00.000-05:002008-11-11T21:32:00.000-05:00I can understand that. I'd be lying if I said I ne...I can understand that. I'd be lying if I said I never wanted to be the prince charming - it's just... that's a difficult goal when you're a geek with "extra-padding."<BR/><BR/>Well, that and it just didn't fit "Me." So I ended up redefining or amending "happiness" and the "fairy tale ending" a hundred times since then.<BR/><BR/>Including once in the last two weeks. <BR/><BR/>Not something that's easily "just done." But I ended up being more flexible than the ideal I latched onto.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2319220787283703563.post-59148768176394241072008-11-11T16:09:00.000-05:002008-11-11T16:09:00.000-05:00@Speaker: That's a good point, and I thinkt hat th...@Speaker: That's a good point, and I thinkt hat the answer is a little of both. <BR/>It's not that I want to be the domestic princess (although I do love to cook and feed people), it's that was the Disney model of happiness for girls that I, like so many of my generation, grew up with.Noelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18417703892090252066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2319220787283703563.post-82972195791609421992008-11-11T12:28:00.000-05:002008-11-11T12:28:00.000-05:00Do you want to be the domestic princess because th...Do you want to be the domestic princess because that actually appeals to you, or because the people in the movies who were domestic princesses looked happy?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com